Wedding hints and tips
What time should the bride arrive?
In some cultures, it’s traditional for the bride to be ‘late’. When you are planning what time to arrive, you may like to think about the situation for your guests eg whether they will need to stand for a long time. If your wedding is outside, the guests may find the weather conditions uncomfortable if they are exposed for long periods. The availability of the celebrant, location and the cars may also be compromised on the day by a delay in the bride’s arrival.
Booking your ceremony venue
Many couples choose to be married in parks or gardens and book their venue with the relevant authority. Your day will run more smoothly if you have booked the location earlier than the ceremony starting time so that your wedding decorators have ample time to set up.
Catering – table set up
Confusion can arise over the set up of tables and tablecloths in reception venues, particularly in venues owned by councils or other government authorities. When you are hiring a venue and organising your caterers, it is worth asking who will set up for you.
Catering - buffet meals
Buffet meals provide a relaxed feel to your reception. If you are planning a buffet meal where guests serve themselves, consider that portion size is not under the caterer’s control. You may want to discuss this with your caterers and order extra food or have the caterers serve the meals from the buffet table.
Exchange of rings
One of the considerations for a wedding, commitment or renewal ceremony is to decide whether you’d like the rings blessed.
Giving the bride away
While it has been traditional for the bride to be ‘given away’, an alternative is to include the bride, groom and family members in a ‘joining ceremony’. This involves acknowledging that the couple are a distinct unit yet will continue to be part of a wider family circle where love, support and guidance continue for all.
